Competition in the phase of life for man and woman

For men,
baby: we are measured by our weight
kid: we compare our toys.
preteen: we compare our dad's car, house and money
teenager: we compare on our academic results
Late teen: we compare our hand phone.
young adult: we compare our girlfriend.
adult: we compare our job and starting salary.
Married adult: we compare our wife, our car, our house and our kids.
Middle age: we compare our paycheck and material possession, power, and status.
Old age: we compare whose God is more powerful and original.

For Women,
baby: We compare our skins
kid: We compare our barbie dolls, dress and shoes.
preteen: We compare our body, breast, buttock, and skin.
Teenagers: we compare who is the slimmest and popular among all.
Young adult: we compare our boyfriends.
Adult: We compare our boyfriend and handbag.
Married Adult: We compare our husband and our kids.
Middle age: We compare our body weights, our hand bag, shoes, most importantly kids.
Old age: We compare how our kids treat us.

...and the cycle of nature start again and again...

Falling love is like flower opening up

When we all at first fall in love, we are blinded to the weaknesses and negative sides of our love partner. We praise the beauty, the body, the money, and every little good stuff. After we fall out of love, we only concentrate and focus on the negative and weak sides of of ex-lover. Not romantic, materialism, boring... Funny isn't it?

Loneliness and solitude

What is differences between loneliness and solitude for us, women? For me, loneliness means there is no one to share thought, emotion, feelings with. One the other hand, solitude means to spending time with ourselves so that we can share with others.
All human have the need to express especially us, women. After all, what is the purpose of music: jazz, hip hop, pop, rock.... All is just an expression for our feelings: happiness, joy, in love, sadness, hope....
Loneliness started to seep in our life if we do not have outlet to vent our special experience in this world. Our fear, our insecurity, our desires, and a lot of our subconscious needs.